Update.
I have chosen to remove my tree as a cousin of mine who will remain nameless, has decided to take not only the tree, but all the notes and 30 years of my work and claim that it is her own.
It saddens me that a cousin would do this, but it is the truth. She has actually published it on Geni.
Please be warned that she is doing this. I am looking into what my next plan of action will be.